I'm not sure where to begin. I have been with my Husband for 9 years, we got married last August. He is a great man we have a great relationship in every way except we have never had sex. We tried early on in our relationship but it never happened - he was too nervous and couldn't maintain an erection.
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My heart poured out for him. I could feel his pain. Every bit of him wanted to show how much he loved his wife, in every way, at every moment. That happened a couple weeks ago. I was speaking with a happily married man- who I know loves and adores his wife- and yet stress from work and other challenges were impairing him in an area he never would have expected. A doctor can help. But even that can feel so invasive and ego crushing to some.
When we do once, maybe twice a year , he is interested, but it is me who initiates it. We have argued a lot about this because I feel our relationship has turned into a friendship. We do love each other and this is the only problem we have, but it has had a serious impact on my self-confidence. I have spoken to him about this openly every few months for years.
I would love to have sex "only" once a week! Here they are:. Surprisingly, this reason is often overlooked.